Wow! What a race! My race started at 9 but I met with my running group, Black Girls Run at 7. There was also a Couch25K graduation race for about 30 members. I wanted to cheer the girls on and it was a blast. I was and still am so proud of all of the graduates. Congratulations Ladies!!
Half Time! OH MY GOSH! What have I gotten myself into ? I was running with 1500+ other people. I have never participated in a race so big. It was a little overwhelming. I was nervous and I kept telling myself, run your own race. I met the local newswoman Cecily Tynan and Senator Tom Carper who was running his 31st Caesar Rodney Half. Cecily gave me words of advice she said, “Pace yourself and do not start off too fast. Save something for the finish.”
I had downloaded a playlist and made sure that it had all of my power songs on it. BANG! The gun goes off and the music starts playing in my ear, I’m Not Afraid by Eminem. What a great start! I am pumped. I was afraid to of what was ahead of me and this song calmed my nerves. Then Blow Me by Pink started playing. Upbeat and I could handle it. Then it started again. What? Ugh! Not a continuous loop. It was and it actually helped. I concentrated on learning every word instead of the miles I had ahead of me.
The course was very hilly but beautiful. It beat me up! Just when I thought I made it to the top, there was another incline. It was a tough course that had very encouraging signs along the way. The one that stood out most to me was Exhale Fear and Inhale Confidence. I was doing just that, gaining confidence with every step. I kept putting the pain behind me. My wrist hurt and was making my arm numb plus my legs were tight. Keep going, keep pushing, you got this.
I ended up having to walk for a small portion of the race in various spots probably a half-mile total because I thought I was going to vomit. You see, I had been sick for a few days earlier in the week. I had to walk and talk myself out of it. I kept saying, you got this and was thinking about all of the support I had from family and friends. The spectators were very encouraging as well. That is what kept me going.
Last leg up the hill almost killed me! I started walking and a member of BGR said “come on girl, you can do it! Get those arms and legs moving. Finish strong, finish running!” I’ve got to be honest I wanted to give up right there. I could see the finish line and started to muster up the last bit of energy that I had. I CAN DO THIS!
Next thing you know, my boys are running along side of me with a sign they made the night before. I had no idea they did that. It was just what I needed to see to keep going. They kept saying, “You can do it mom! We believe in you!” And they ran with me to the finish line. I did it! I have officially completed a half marathon.
The reception after was awesome. They provided the runners with pizza, pretzels, fresh fruit, water, cupcakes (delicious), Cliff Bars, hot chicken noodle soup and massage available for anyone interested. The line was very long, so I begrudgingly opted out of the massage.
What I learned about myself is that I can do many things. Through the added support of others I can do more. Initially I was ashamed that I walked a portion of the race and realized I still finished and it was my first race. I should not be so hard on myself. I felt like I let them down. When I told family and friends that, they said, “You ran for most of the race and finished, stop dwelling on what you did not do and be happy for what you did do.” They were right. This was for my Uncle Rocky, my Boys (Kyle & Jordan) and myself.
Will I do it again? Absolutely! Next time, I want to run the ENTIRE race without walking at all. I have it in me and I know I can do it! This is just the beginning for me. I have a lot more I want to accomplish with running, fitness and my life. I have goals and will accomplish no matter how much time it takes. It’s not about the time it takes to finish, it’s about finishing what was started.